A Kick-Ass Kinda Community

In April 2018, Living LFS awarded 14 travel scholarships to members of our support group to help them attend the LFSA 2018 REACH International LFS Symposium at SickKids Hospital in Toronto, Canada.

 

These scholarships were provided by years of fundraising through T-shirt fundraisers and generous donations to our Friends of Living LFS program.

Linda and Doug Zercoe were Pathfinder donors, providing a $500 scholarship for one of our members.

Linda, a huge supporter of Living LFS, penned the heartfelt memoir A Kick-Ass Fairy in 2013.

Linda shared intimate experiences of her journey through multiple cancers and LFS diagnosis. Although Linda wanted to be at the conference in person, treatment for her latest bout with cancer made that trip impossible. Yet, in true Kick-Ass fashion, Linda generously wanted to make sure another member could partake in the benefits of learning about LFS and being around others who get it.  The scholarship became The Kick-Ass Scholarship. Given to the member who exemplifies warrior status, tough of the tough and someone who inspires others to live their best life by kicking cancer’s ass.

The 2018 Kick-Ass Scholarship was awarded to a support group member who has and continues to face the challenges of multiple cancers, their treatments and long term effects with strength, grace, and a whole bunch of hilarity; our friend Row. She inspires all of us daily with her tenacity, humor, and absolute love of life. Where Row goes, there are shenanigans and Toronto was no exception- to the delight of many support group members. Her mere presence was a boost to all and her demand that we finish our long week of learning with a trip to the novelty ice cream parlor, The Poop Cafe epitomizes why she was this year’s recipient of the Kick-Ass Scholarship. When life gives you poop, go out for ice cream with friends.

 

I have had the most wonderful experience over the last 10 days. The LFSA conference was intense, informative and provided me with so much hope for now and the future. This is priceless!

The friends I have met all over the world from online posts to being REAL human beings has made me speechless of just how amazing this really has been. Outside conference I have laughed, laughed and smiled some more. Spent time and shared love, craziness and feelings with friends who truly ‘get it’ is just WOW! I’ve ticked off bucket list items by the bucket load!

None of this would have happened without a wonderful, generous Kick-Ass scholarship from Living LFS provided by a very very special lady Linda. So thank you all for being part of this wonderful 10 days. I’ve had a ball! 💖💖

Linda and Row are sources of strength, support, and inspiration and remind us how fun it is to LIVE! AS Linda told me,

kicking cancers ass is not always in our control. Living our best life while trying or in between is. Raising children, being a friend, etc. is living.

 


LFS in WOMEN

 

Women with Li-Fraumeni Syndrome have close to 100% chance of developing cancer in their lifetime. About half of all these cancers develop before age 30 and about 50% of the risk is due to breast cancer. The risk of breast cancer by age 60 for women is 85%.  So, what’s a lady mutant to do?

Understand YOUR Risk.

Not everyone’s risk is the same. Meeting with a practitioner, ideally a Genetic Counselor familiar with LFS is a good way to get help assess your risk of cancer based on your mutation, family history and other factors. Understanding your risk can help you make screening and treatment decisions. Find a Genetic counselor at www.nsgc.org

Women with LFS tend to get breast cancer earlier than the normal population. The cancer risk in general is higher for certain cancers at certain age ranges.

  • 0-10 years- higher risk of Soft Tissue Sarcomas, Brain Tumors, and Adrenocortical Carcinoma
  • 11-20 years- higher risk for Bone Sarcomas
  • >20 years- higher risk for Breast and Brain Tumors

Know YOUR Body.

Just as one size jeans don’t fit everyone, neither do our genes- even within the same family. We do look at family history for trends, but we are all unique and rare and often our cancers are too. It’s important to not only do monthly self breast exams, but self exams. Know your body, what works and makes you feel your best and what doesn’t. Have any changes checked out by a professional. We usually follow a 2 week rule for lumps, bumps, and weirdisms- if it hasn’t resolved or gotten better in 2 weeks, it’s time to have a doctor take a look and go from there. Ignoring it doesn’t make it go away. We grow weird, not all of it is cancer. Just as you know what jeans feel the best, you know your body. If things are off or don’t feel right, it’s time to call and get an opinion of a clinician.

LIVE Despite YOUR LFS.

LFS is rare. You are even more rare. You get to make the calls on how you live YOUR best life. You get to make the calls about screening, about treatment, about your health. There are so many tough decisions in life, even tougher ones in dealing with Li-Fraumeni Syndrome. What to eat? How to avoid radiation? Should I have children? Should I have my children tested? What is that lump?

Learning Li-Fraumeni Syndrome

Learn as much as you can. Learn from doctors. Learn from reading. Learn from others. Learn about LFS. Learn about nutrition and radiation. Learn about cancer. Then tuck that knowledge away and hope you won’t need it and LIVE. Learn by living.  For You. There are many things we do not have any control over, but we can control us. We can’t control our feelings, we can control how we react to them. We can’t control IF we get cancer, but we CAN control how we navigate our risk. If the recommended screening is too much and adds too much stress to your life, finances, and sanity- talk with your provider. There are options. There is support.

Find your Tribe. Sometimes you can feel like you are on an island called LFS. You take trips to normal, but often are yanked back by screening, scanxiety, cancer. You are not alone. You are strong. Look at finding support as prophylactic action to prevent insanity. Your Tribe does not have to be LFS related(if you are looking for LFS support- please check out our support groups on Facebook. They are simply amazing). Find Support Here. Find what and who works for you.

The majority of our support groups are women. This represents not only the cancer risk associated with LFS in women, but how people deal differently. Although there are different risks associated with gender, coping is not age, gender, or cancer specific. Neither is living LFS.

More Reading on LFS:

LFS Gene Review:  https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK1311/

Breast Cancer and TP53:  https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5790840/