Holiday Angels

The holidays can be bittersweet when living LFS. We are grateful for each day, each memory, but we also experience an unfair helping of loss.Screen Shot 2017-12-10 at 9.52.17 AM

On December 16, 2016, the Quist family surrounded 13 year old Josh as he earned his angel wings after enduring months of treatment, multiple surgeries and a clinical trial for a Glioblastoma brain tumor. Outside on a tree in their yard, hung several angel ornaments, gifts from friends to let Josh and the entire Quist family know they had an army of angels praying for them.

Screen Shot 2017-12-10 at 9.53.46 AMThis year, as the Josh’s Angelversary approaches, again angels adorn the tree in the Quist yard. Each one is a symbol that Josh is not forgotten and neither is the Quist family’s grief. Josh loved Cub Scouts, Legos and Star Wars, he earned a blue belt in Karate, and made the 8th grade honor roll. All who knew Josh, comment on what an outstanding young man he was. As Chris, Paula, and Heidi near the anniversary of his death, streets are adorned with holiday decorations. There is no timeline or playbook for grief and the holidays following loss of a loved one present new challenges. Their Angel Tree is an excellent way to remember Josh and honor the part he played in their lives, while honoring the Quist family’s grief. It can be very difficult to navigate the complex emotions of loss during the holidays. There are some things we can do to help.

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FEEL- There are a lot of complex emotions that come with grieving at the holidays. Sadness, Anger, Happiness, Guilt. It’s OK to feel all of the emotions. Be honest about your feelings, many times it takes more effort to hide feelings than accepting them. It’s a good time to watch a sappy movie or a comedy and showcase all of the feels.

MAKE- Grief changes us. Traditions of the past may not feel right. It’s OK to change traditions.  Make a new tradition that includes the loss. Just as the community came together to support the Quist family, they made Josh’s Angel Tree a new tradition that honors and remembers him. Find something that feels right, light a candle, plant a tree, watch a  favorite movie or cook a favorite meal.

REMEMBER- Sometimes we get caught up in our own grief, we forget siblings and children are grieving too. Remember these special times with the children, help give them tools to deal with the complex emotions of loss during the holidays. Many times it’s the children who help us remember the joy of the season.

CONNECT- We may not feel like being around others. That’s OK. Communicating our feelings and being with others can be difficult. It can also do wonders for healing. Be open to connecting with others and plan an exit strategy if it’s just too much.

SIMPLIFY- We may not feel like sending 200 cards out or shopping. It’s OK. Simplify holiday routines. Pick and choose what feels right and brings us peace and joy.

Just as we are forever changed by knowing special people like Josh, we are forever changed by losing them. We keep them alive through memories and this can be very difficult during the holidays. Just as grief is very personal, so is dealing with the holidays following loss. There are many sad times, but every now and again the joy creeps in and that’s OK.


Variants of Uncertain Significance(VUS) in LFS

Few things are more frustrating than looking for answers and getting the response- we don’t know. Sometimes, a person agonizes over the decision to be tested for a hereditary cancer syndrome like LFS, finally getting tested just to know for sure. Unfortunately the results aren’t always a clear cut; Yes, you have LFS or No, you do not have LFS.

There are thousands and thousands of changes that can occur to our DNA, called mutations. Not all mutations are harmful- whether or not the mutations are “bad” is a personal opinion. There are mutations that we just don’t know if they are harmful or harmless, in the case of LFS, we don’t know if the mutation is associated with cancer.  They are called Variants of Uncertain Significance (VUS),  also known as Variants of Unknown Significance (still VUS), or  Unclassified Variants.


Li-Fraumeni Syndrome is associated with mutations in the TP53 gene. TP53 makes a tumor suppressor, so if the tumor suppressor doesn’t work right, we sprout tumors. There are many spots on the DNA, where mutations can occur. Some change the way the gene works, some do not. Sometimes the gene only works a little bit.  For more reading on mutations and how they affect us, you can read our blog “Some MUTATIONS are NONSENSE“.

When classifying variants (changes in DNA/mutations) there is a scale from 1-5 – Benign to Pathogenic. Benign (B9 to experienced mutants) means not harmful or more importantly not malignant. Pathogenic means to cause a disease- in our case, cancers.

  1. Benign means there is no change caused by the variant.
  2. Likely Benign means suspected to not cause disease.
  3. Uncertain are VUS (Variants of Uncertain Significance) this means there is not enough data to know if the mutation will cause disease or not.
  4. Likely Pathogenic means the variant is suspected to cause disease.
  5. Pathogenic means the variant is known to cause disease.


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Genomic Variant Scale from

The American Society of Human Genetics (ASHG) advises that VUS should not be used for decision making, they are neither good nor bad, and all medical decisions should be based on medical findings and family history. This does not mean you are negative for a mutation, it simply means there is a mutation there and that we do not have enough information to momentarily identify what the risk is. The best bet is to consult with a trusted geneticist or genetic counselor ( to evaluate your risk based on what you do know – your medical history, your family history, and other relevant factors.

Things to Remember:

You cannot interpret what is not known. Li-Fraumeni Syndrome is rare, we just don’t have the research numbers to know if VUS are linked to cancers. Not everyone with LFS linked mutations get cancer. We know some mutations are linked to certain cancers in LFS but there is still a lot of uncertainty. Participating in studies, such as PROMPT help record data and could help predict if certain VUS might be linked to risk of certain cancers or not.

Focus on what you can control. You can control diet, exercise, and other contributing factors to a healthy lifestyle. Although we can not control mutations, we can try to reduce our risk. A genetic counselor can help you evaluate risk and decide what and if a screening regimen would be good for you. Many people with LFS follow the Toronto Protocol, however, the best regimen is the one that works best for you, your risk, insurance coverage, and lifestyle.

As we learn more, classifications can change. When TP53 was first discovered, it was thought to be an oncogene, a gene that causes cancer. After decades of research, it was reclassified as a tumor suppressor gene. Keeping up with current research can help you advocate for yourself and live LFS.

LLFS Board Member Andi connected with Wendy Kohlmann, MS, CGC, a licensed genetic counselor at the University of Utah Huntsman Cancer Institute. In this excerpt from her interview for the Learning Li-Fraumeni Syndrome podcast, she explains what it means when your genetic test results show a VUS: a variant of uncertain significance or variant of unknown significance.

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Resources and more reading on VUS:

American Society of Human Genetics on VUS

Mayo Clinic pdf on VUS

Think Genetic LFS VUS